This research suggested that there were three
major coping strategies or coping categories used by lonely persons when
coping with their loneliness. These
three coping categories were also a consolidation of previous research
that had been done on coping strategies. The coping categories also seemed to fall along a continuum from
RPA coping, through EES coping to CA coping. However this research raised a number of questions that need to be
answered in future research.
First is
the direction of the relationship between loneliness and coping
strategies. It appeared from
the present study that there may be a bi-directional relationship between
loneliness and coping strategies, especially for RPA coping, however this
cannot be confirmed given the cross-sectional methodology used here.
Future studies need to investigate how loneliness and coping
strategies relate with each other and whether or not this relationship is
bi-directional.
Secondly,
there is a question of how lonely people choose which coping mechanism
they will use. For example,
what makes one person choose RPA coping and another choose CA coping? Some initial theorizing had been done here, but it is not
accompanied by systematic investigation.
Previous theorizing and empirical investigations in this area have
been lacking. It may be
related to such things as locus of control, feelings of powerlessness, the
intensity of the painful loneliness experienced and the ability of the
person to do something to alleviate their loneliness.
Thirdly,
there seemed to be three common coping categories found among lonely
individuals. It may be possible that these three coping categories
may be related to the ways in which these individuals form attachments to
other people. Shaver and Hazan (1989) have done some initial work
into attachment styles among the lonely and have found that avoidant
attachment and anxious/ambivalent attachment are associated more with
loneliness than secure attachment. Could there be a one to one
relationship between attachment styles and coping, so persons who exhibit
avoidant attachments also RPA cope, those who exhibit anxious/ambivalent
attachments use EES coping and those who have secure attachments use CA
coping? This would be an interesting area of future research.
